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I’m Afraid of How My Partner Will React to My Unplanned Pregnancy

Handling an unexpected pregnancy can be challenging, especially when you're unsure about your partner's reaction. The uncertainty surrounding how they might respond can add an extra layer of stress to an already sensitive situation. Still, there are ways to make breaking the news to your partner more simple.

We’ll offer methods for telling your partner about your unexpected pregnancy. Or, if you want to talk to someone in person, reach out to us at Metro Women’s Care. We’re here to provide you with no-cost pregnancy services and support.

Safety First

Are you afraid to tell the news because you're worried your partner may react violently? In this scenario, you need to put yourself and your well-being first. You do not have to “make the best” of a situation. You deserve more.

You should contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline if your partner is abusive. You can call them at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text at 88788.

Preparing For The Discussion

It’s understandable to feel some anxiety about this conversation, but a conversation should be had. If the situation were reversed, you would likely want your partner to be forthcoming with you.

Select a time and location where your partner can fully focus on the conversation, allowing you to address any questions they might have.

Your partner's initial response could range from surprise and dismay to fear. Such reactions are common and should not be taken personally. An unexpected pregnancy represents a significant shift in life, and it's important to give your partner the time they need to work through their feelings.

Aftermath

Your partner might be ready to participate actively in making decisions, including going to appointments and considering choices with you.

However, if your partner isn't offering the support you need, remember it's not a reflection of your worth.

Talking to family and friends, along with reaching out to us, can connect you with individuals who will support you throughout this experience.

Get The Support You Deserve

No matter what happens, Metro Women’s Care is here for you. Take advantage of our no-cost pregnancy services, such as ultrasounds or STI testing, and get education, medical referrals, and community connections.

Contact us today to schedule a confidential appointment in a safe space.